Sunday, April 26, 2020

Does an age gap really matter in a relationship?

Most people look for a new partner who is within five or ten years of their own age. But they may be missing out on good matches who are outside their specified age bracket. When it comes to finding a healthy and lasting relationship does a large age gap really matter?
1. SIMPLY love happens
All our lives we try to plan every minute, every detail of our life. Thankfully, we leave falling in love to chance.
We let our emotions take over
and flow along with them to wherever they might take us.

The same happens when two people sharing a huge age gap meet, are able to find a connection through hobbies, interests, and other activities that they collectively like, it will essentially define how their relationship will progress.

The success of a relationship depends on the extent to which partners share similar values, beliefs and goals about their relationship; support each other in achieving personal goals; foster relationship commitment, trust and intimacy; and resolve problems in constructive ways. These factors have little do with age.

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So when the couple is based on love, commitment and trust, age should be no barrier

2. Energy level and maturity are more important than a number.
if you are dating someone much older, but they are healthy and fit, then your energy levels align. Being vibrant and energetic is essential because you are young and want to experience everything
And you could be dating someone much younger, but they are emotionally mature. Furthermore, Maturity is something that develops after experiences we face in life; you don't just magically become mature on your 25th birthday. You can mature at a very young age.
3. Learning from each other is key. Counter Argument
Although people say that It can be easier to spend time with someone closer to your own age; you grew up with the same music, TV shows, culture, movies, fads, politics etc… this can make it easier to talk about things and share memories.”  But This doesn’t guarantee compatibility
One of the most important things in a relationship is learning from each other’s.
One of the best things about dating someone who’s born in a different era than you, is soaking up their understanding of the world. “Dating someone older can provide you with their knowledge and experience and even wisdom,” “You may learn a lot from this person. On the other hand, dating someone younger can allow you to have fun and grow in different ways.
But… What will people say? Many of us refrain from doing a lot of things like being in a relationship with someone older/younger just because of the fear of people’s judgments and criticism
Put your own happiness first
What they say DOESN’T MATTER because:
LOVE HAS NO AGE RESTRICTION
LOVE HAS NO LABELS

Let love work its mysterious magic if you find yourself having a special connection with someone who is older or younger than you. Explore it and let it grow beautifully.

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